Wait - who does like to wait? Practically, none. We all want to get things done as soon as possible. Sometimes, the wait is worth it and sometimes it's not. There are a thousand and one instances where one has waited only to get disappointed at the end of it. So why do we wait for things to happen when we know that things will happen at their own pace. Why are we so impatient?
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The most common example of the 'wait' in our day-to-day life is waiting for the call. We all expect calls from the most important persons in our lives. For some, it's parents.. for some it's their friends.. for some it's their boss.. for some it's their special ones.. for some it's just a surprise call!! We expect calls from them because we love those people for some reason or another. We have stored so many things within us that we would want to share with them - and to share all these stuffs - the people are just a phone call away! Thanks to the developing technology of mobile phones and boosting network!! We're happy when we get to share things instantly and without any hustles. We're more than happy when the phone rings and we know that it's the person with whom we wanna' speak. But do you remember the time when you had to share something important and the person with whom you're trying to connect isn't reachable? Or when we try to connect the person and the person in not picking up our call? That point of time is so impatient for us. We feel like killing the time and we curse the person for not answering our call. Is this anger valid? Obviously, yes - for any human on this planet who has bonded attachments with love. If there's no love, there's no expectation and there'll never be wait. The 'wait' is just a testing time in one's life to make him/her realize what and how much the person means for him/her. The anger berated by us during this time is just the outcome of the loss of patience and hope. It's also during this small period of 'anger' that we say things which we wished we shouldn't have said at all. What we all fail to realize is - putting ourselves into the shoes of person on the other end. Obviously, if that person cares equally for you, he/she will certainly get back to you as soon as possible - all you need to give them is "TIME". Time has always had the power to settle things down. Nobody has raced against the time and those who did have never won.
Firstly, we need to build patience within ourselves. Secondly, we need to blindly trust the person whom we care for. And last, but not the least - give time. Always give sufficient time for things to get clear and settled down. Just like the rain washes away the dust and dirt in the atmosphere, the time will wash away our worries and anxiety within us. Hope these three keys equip you to unravel the answers to impatient journey of the wait!
The most common example of the 'wait' in our day-to-day life is waiting for the call. We all expect calls from the most important persons in our lives. For some, it's parents.. for some it's their friends.. for some it's their boss.. for some it's their special ones.. for some it's just a surprise call!! We expect calls from them because we love those people for some reason or another. We have stored so many things within us that we would want to share with them - and to share all these stuffs - the people are just a phone call away! Thanks to the developing technology of mobile phones and boosting network!! We're happy when we get to share things instantly and without any hustles. We're more than happy when the phone rings and we know that it's the person with whom we wanna' speak. But do you remember the time when you had to share something important and the person with whom you're trying to connect isn't reachable? Or when we try to connect the person and the person in not picking up our call? That point of time is so impatient for us. We feel like killing the time and we curse the person for not answering our call. Is this anger valid? Obviously, yes - for any human on this planet who has bonded attachments with love. If there's no love, there's no expectation and there'll never be wait. The 'wait' is just a testing time in one's life to make him/her realize what and how much the person means for him/her. The anger berated by us during this time is just the outcome of the loss of patience and hope. It's also during this small period of 'anger' that we say things which we wished we shouldn't have said at all. What we all fail to realize is - putting ourselves into the shoes of person on the other end. Obviously, if that person cares equally for you, he/she will certainly get back to you as soon as possible - all you need to give them is "TIME". Time has always had the power to settle things down. Nobody has raced against the time and those who did have never won.
Firstly, we need to build patience within ourselves. Secondly, we need to blindly trust the person whom we care for. And last, but not the least - give time. Always give sufficient time for things to get clear and settled down. Just like the rain washes away the dust and dirt in the atmosphere, the time will wash away our worries and anxiety within us. Hope these three keys equip you to unravel the answers to impatient journey of the wait!
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