Sunday, 2 June 2019

Sid's theory of post evolution dominance!

Well, to start with we all are familiar with the Darwin's theory of evolution which states that the strongest and the fittest will survive in this world. It is a mechanism of Darwin's 'Natural Selection' concept. Many could relate to this theory which also explains the extinction of the gigantic Dinosaurs from this planet Earth billions of years ago. This is all that we have read and it's the past of what has already happened. Evolution is a gradual process and it will continue to happen at it's own pace. But did we ever give it a thought as to what is happening to us in the present? It's time that I present you the newest theory in continuation to the Darwin's theory of Evolution - I call it my THEORY OF POST-EVOLUTION DOMINANCE!

"The toughest would survive,
but the smartest would dominate"

This theory explains the logical understanding of the existence of human species and their struggle to dominate over the inter-species on this planet! The struggle is not just among humans and other species, it has narrowed down to a struggle within their own species. Humans have always had a history of evolving into something better! Right from the 'Stone' age to this age of AI - 'Artificial Intelligence', humans have continually shown betterment in their way of living. In the stone age, we developed tools made from stone that helped make our lives easier, then came the age of metals, then the medieval age and then the industrial age, so on and so forth. We are now in the age of 'technology' where we are simultaneously working in different technologies at the same time. We have developed nanobots that could perform an entire operation in a human body, on the other hand we have developed spaceships that have traveled across our solar system. This is not all, the kind of technology we are working on will have an entire new species taking control over this planet, AI or maybe mutants (don't confuse it with the X-men series, although the thought is inspired from it). Well, all of this is just a possibility or a prediction, unless we act upon it and take control over our lives. Somewhere, we seem to have lost control of our lives.

Happiness is no longer meeting your friends and relatives. It is the more likes you get on your Facebook or Instagram profile. We are so much into this social media, that we longer care to go out, see and meet our fellow loved ones. Earlier, the birthday wishes were meant to be visiting their house and meeting them, if not that then calling up and sharing heart-felt birthday wishes. Now, it's just a whatsapp message with a ready-made cake smiley with few emoticons or not even that, maybe just a simple birthday wish over a common whatsapp group.

'The toughest would survive, but the smartest would dominate' - This is true in today's work scenario as well. We live in an age where hard work is paid less, and smart efficient work is paid more. Consider a construction laborer who works and slogs hard to earn a minuscule amount of wage to survive his family, and contrasting to this consider a fellow management person who supervises the laborers who tries to manage the cost of laborers to the minimum so as to complete the project with less manpower, thereby reducing the overall cost of the project. Well, many of you could certainly relate it to your own workplace? Right? The work of roughly 3-4 people will be burdened on a single person by the management under the disguise of extracting his/her full potential. Over a period of time, this has set a new trend for 'cost-saving' model. The upper-management or the business owners only see the financial numbers, nobody cares to see the actual suffering an employee has to go through when he is being burdened with the task which ideally requires 3-4 people. Nobody sees the struggle which an employee goes through in order to achieve the results and working more than his stipulated working hours. Only a selective few get to enjoy their work-life balance. Welcome to the age where money matters more over people!

Don't be scared or demotivated with the talks I shared, for it's the sad reality of today's world. But it's only us who can help bring a positive change about this. Do not let this 'Dominating' culture get over your personal life. Your life is completely yours to live and make the most of it. Do not lose your control to other people or technology for that matter. Make optimum use of technology, only to ease up your life and not to replace your life. Take time out for your family and friends. If you truly love them, make them feel loved. Live life like it's going to make up the future generations worth living! 

Yours hypothetically,
Sid😎

Wednesday, 1 March 2017

Race against your inabilities!



At times, in life you may come across some experiences wherein you feel you are unable to perform to your potential. From this point, there are 2 ways - one is to accept your inability and other is to overcome the fear of failure. The former choice proves our failure nature, whereas the latter choice helps us to overcome the hurdles and build confidence which will stay with us for lifetime.
Always race against your inabilities because the moment you accept failure is the moment you've let yourself down. Make your self believe that nothing is impossible! Train your mind first, not your body. Your body will ultimately believe in your mind.

Stay charged, stay motivated!

- Sid

Sunday, 5 April 2015

11 weird after-effects when your best-friend goes out-of-town for few days!

We all have friends with whom we share most of the stuffs.. and a few special friends with whom you share the secrets.. but there's a friend with whom you're just completely #YOU!! That's our BF #BestFriend ^_^ We call up or meet up our BF's anytime just to update them about us.. or sometimes just because we feel so (well, is there any reason for catching up for BFs?) We're at our natural best when we are around them. But what when suddenly one of us has to go out-of-town for a mini-vacation? or a trip? or any plan of which you're not a part :P

1. You bid a #goodbye to them with a happy face but a worried heart

Goodbyes were never so easy. Especially when you know the next few days will be without them. Till the point of saying goodbye - you're all cool and stuff, but as soon as the station/airport arrives and you know it's time to say goodbye.. your coolness disappears and you're like.. oh-so-helpless!

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2. You check , recheck & cross-check their travel-plans

Right from train/plane timings to the seat comfort and co-passengers - you inquire them about almost everything!! Then the typical questions about food, sleep, mobile battery/charger.. you act like their parents, LOL :D

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3. Every time your phone rings, you assume it to be their call!!

Since the time your BF is out, it happens that every single time your phone rings.. you just rush to the phone assuming it to be your BF's call.. and if it's not their call - it's so damn disappointing!! :P

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4. Your text messages / whatsapp messages to them suddenly become longer

Usually you used to send short one-liners which suddenly turn out to be long paragraphs that includes hi/how r u/how's it there? kinda' stuff.. sometimes too cheesy.. plus a few complaints as to why didn't you call/msg after reaching? why didn't you respond to my previous (longer) messages? LOL :)) In short, you literally become a complaint-box!!!! :P

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5. Empty Weekends?!!

Like so obvious?! Be it a blockbuster weekend movie or a hangout to a nearby mall - If you go out with your BF every other weekend, then you don't really have any other plans except waiting for your BF to return. Making up weekend plans with others may sound interesting, but you're least bothered about it.

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6. You relate every conversation with other friends to your BF! - "IF IT WAS HER/HIM..."

Be it any conversation you're having with your friends, you always come up with the name of your BF in that conversation! You try and relate every situation to having your BF around.. like.. "IF IT WAS HER, SHE WOULD HAVE DEFINITELY SAID THIS".. or "IF IT WAS HER, SHE WOULD HAVE BEATEN THE HELL OUT OF ME" etc etc. You mistakenly call your friend by the name of your BF! You talk so damn much about your BF that the friend you're with ultimately calls it a day!

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7. You expect to know everything that's happening at your BF's end

Even when you know that your BF's stuck with a new place - new people - new environment.. and still struggling to get hold of everything.. you're impatient to know each and everything that your BF is going through.. and with that those silly meaningless questions - did you have your dinner? Is it too cold/hot there? are you enjoying? (LOL, because you're not enjoying too much without them) :D
You actually turn out to be a chatter-box full of questions and self-explanatory answers :P

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8. You keep looking at the pictures/selfies with them & smile

No matter how many times you've clicked pictures with your BF in that same selfie-pose.. you certainly like to see it over and over again! Looking at them makes us realize how lucky we are to have them in our life- and then comes that classic million dollar smile on our face thinking about them ^_^

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9. A phone-call from them changes your mood from dull to super-excited!

A surprise phone-call from them changes your dull mood to a super-happy face :D 

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10. You note down stuffs you would like to discuss with your BF once they're back!

Be it a bad day at your workplace or be it an awesome party-time you've had.. you note it down so that you can share it with your BF until the time they're back! You do this because you don't want your BF to get distracted by your routine problems, but certainly you want them to be discussed only with your BF when they're back!!

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11. You miss the "BEING SILLY" part of you!!!

You start acting serious about everything and there's one very integral part of you that's missing - "Silliness" - which you're comfortable only being with your BF!! You miss your BF in every smallest of aspect.. be it talking shit about people or be it cracking jokes which make no sense.. you miss the person who makes you feel silly and most importantly makes you feel #you

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Miss you my #BF - you're the only star that shines the brightest in the dark sky! ^_^